2014-2015 Camp Fairs and Open Houses

November 25th, 2014

Wednesday, December 17, 2014 – Friday, December 19, 2014

Chicago, Illinois

Program Director Rose Robinson is attending the Midwest Band and Orchestra Clinic and is available to meet with you at:

Hyatt Regency McCormick Place

2233 S. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Drive

Chicago, IL 60616

Please call for an appointment: (561)-756-6643 or (800) 634-1703.

 

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Chicago, Illinois

Open House at the Hyatt Regency McCormick Place

2233 S. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Drive

Chicago, IL 60616

6:00 pm – 7:30 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703 or (561) 756-6643

 

Friday, December 19, 2014

Deerfield, Illinois

Courtyard By Marriott Lobby

800 Lake Cook Road

Deerfield, IL 60015

4:00 pm – 7:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703 or (561) 756-6643

 

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Naperville, Illinois

Open House at the Hampton Inn – Meeting Room

1087 East Diehl Road

Naperville, IL

10:00 am- 12 noon

RSVP: (800) 634-1703 or (561) 756-6643

 

Sunday, December 21, 2014

South Florida

Open House at the Home of the Director

5419 NE 31st Avenue

Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33308

12 noon – 4:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Manhattan

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Saturday, January 10, 2015

Tarrytown, New York

Open House at the Coppola’s

620 South Broadway

Tarrytown, NY

12 noon – 4:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Brookline, Massachusetts

Boston Parents Paper 2015

Camp & Summer Expo

Clay Center Dexter Southfield

20 Newton Street

Brookline, MA 02445

11:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Summit, New Jersey

The Grand Summit Hotel

570 Springfield Avenue

Summit, NJ 07901

12 noon – 3 pm

 

Rye, New York

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Brookline, Massachusetts

Boston Kids Fair

Brookline High School

Tappan Gym

66 Tappan Street

Brookline, MA 02445

11:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Sharon, Massachusetts

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Manhattan

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Wednesday, January 14, 2015 – Saturday January 17, 2015

Tampa, Florida

Florida Music Educators Association

Tampa Convention Center

333 South Franklin Street

Tampa, FL 33602

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Doylestown, Pennsylvania

Bucks County Camp Fair

Delaware Valley College

700 E. Butler Avenue

Doylestown, PA 18901

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Mamaroneck, New York

Westchester Family Camp Fair

Mamaroneck Beach & Yacht Club

555 S. Barry Avenue

Mamaroneck, NY 10543

1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

 

Sunday, January 18, 2015

Dresher, Pennsylvania

Temple Sinai

1401 N. Limekiln Pike

Dresher, PA 19025

11:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Bridgewater, New Jersey

Bridgewater Marriott

700 Commons Way

Bridgewater, NJ 08807

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Tarrytown, New York

Hackley School

293 Benedict Avenue

Tarrytown, NY 10591

1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

 

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Berwyn, Pennsylvania

Main Line Camp Fair

Conestoga High School

200 Irish Road

Berwyn, PA 19312

5:30 pm – 8:30 pm

 

Vail, Colorado

Open House at the Chicoine’s

210 Howard Drive

Edwards, CO 81632

5 pm – 8 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Saturday, January 24, 2015

Washington, DC

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Manhattan Media – Upper East Side

St. Jean Baptiste School

173 East 75th Street

New York, NY 10021

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Sunday, January 25, 2015

Manhattan – Upper West Side

Rodeph Shalom

7 West 83rd Street

New York, NY 10024

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Conshohocken, Pennsylvania

Philly Metro Kids Super Camp Fair

Conshohocken Marriott

111 Crawford Avenue W.

Conshohocken, PA 19428

1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

 

Rockville, Maryland

Montgomery County Camp & Summer Fun Expo

Hilton Hotel & Executive Meeting Center

1750 Rockville Pike

Rockville, MD 20852

10:00 am – 6:00 pm

 

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Greenwich, Connecticut

Greenwich SummerFare 2015

Greenwich High School

10 Hillside Road

Greenwich, CT 06830

6:00 pm – 9:00 pm

 

Wednesday, January 28, 2015 – Saturday, January 31, 2015

Savannah, Georgia

Georgia Music Educators Association

Savannah International Trade & Convention Center

Savannah, GA 31421

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Wilmington, Delaware

Tower Hill Camp Fair

Tower Hill School

2813 West 17th Street

Wilmington, DE 19806

3:30 pm – 7:00 pm

 

Saturday, January 31, 2015

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Springside Chestnut Hill Academy

Gym Complex

500 W. Willow Grove Avenue

Philadelphia, PA 19118

11:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Lexington, Massachusetts

Lexington Camp Fair

Lexington High School Cafeteria

251 Waltham Street

Lexington, MA 02421

11:30 am – 2:00 pm

 

Moorestown, New Jersey

Moorestown Friends School

Field House Gym and Commons

110 East Main Street

Moorestown, NJ 08057

11:30 am – 3:30 pm

 

Darien, Connecticut

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Paris, France

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Sunday, February 1, 2015

Andover, Massachusetts

Summer Opportunities Fair

Phillips Academy Smith Center

(Off Route 28 Near the Intersection of Dwight Street)

Andover, MA 01810

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Short Hills, New Jersey

Open House at the Wolf’s

27 Holly Drive

Short Hills, NJ 07078

11:00 am – 2:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Monday, February 2, 2015

Newton, Massachusetts

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Paris, France

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Paris, France

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Milan, Italy

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Thursday, February 5, 2015 – Saturday, February 7, 2015

OMEA Cleveland, Ohio

Ohio Music Educators Association

New Cleveland Convention Center

Cleveland, Ohio

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Friday, February 6, 2015

Milan, Italy

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Saturday, February 7, 2015

Nashville, Tennessee

Nashville Parent Cool Springs Galleria

1800 Galleria Boulevard

Franklin, TN 37067

10:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Pasadena, California

Westridge School Fair

324 Madeline Drive

Pasadena, CA 91105

10:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Medina, Washington

St. Thomas School

8300 NE 12th Street

Medina, WA 98039

10:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Manhattan Media – Upper West Side

Bank Street School

610 West 112 Street

New York, NY 10025

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Dallas, Texas

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Los Angeles, California

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Los Angeles, California

Open House

TBA

 

NYC Manhattan Media

Brooklyn Heights Montessori School

185 Court Street

Brooklyn, NY 11201

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Seattle, Washington

Open House at the Kleitsch’s

3532 SW 172 Street

Burien, WA 98166

3:00 pm – 5:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Monday, February 9, 2015

Germantown, Pennsylvania

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Wynnewood, Pennsylvania

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Wednesday, February 11, 2015 – Sunday, February 15, 2015

TMEA San Antonio, Texas

Henry B. Gonzalez Convention Center

200 E. Market Street

San Antonio, TX 78205

There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.

(800) 634-1703 – Call for details.

 

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Caracas, Venezuela

Open House at the Benhamu’s

Calle Avila 1 B Con Cachimbo

Res Villas Del Avila Casa a los Chorros

Caracas, Venezuela

12 noon – 4:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Fort Lee, New Jersey

Open House

TBA

1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

 

Cincinnati, Ohio

Cincinnati Family Magazine

Cincinnati Sports Club

3950 Red Bank Road

Cincinnati, OH 45227

10:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Sunday, February 15, 2015

Marlboro, New Jersey

Open House at the Riklan’s

20 Aire Drive

Marlboro, NJ 07746

1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Friday, February 20, 2015

Scottsdale, Arizona

Open House at the Stein’s

17724 N. 93rd Street

Scottsdale, AZ 85255

5:00 pm – 8:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Phoenix, Arizona

Phoenix Arizona Camp Fair

Tesseract School Shea Campus

3939 E. Shea Boulevard

Phoenix, AZ 85028

10:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Sunday, February 22, 2015

Chandler, Arizona

Chandler Preparatory Academy

1951 N. Alma School Road

Chandler, AZ 85224

10:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Toronto, Ontario Canada

Toronto Camp Expo Roy

Thomson Hall

60 Simcoe Street

Toronto, ON M5J 2H5

12 noon – 4:00 pm

 

Thursday, February 26, 2015

Columbus, Ohio

Panera’s Restaurant

Broad Street

Bexley, OH

3:30 pm – 7:00 pm

RSVP: (800) 634-1703

 

Saturday, February 28, 2015

Cleveland, Ohio

Solon Community Center

35000 Portz Parkway

Solon, OH 44139

10:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Bolton, Massachusetts

Bolton Summer Camp Fair

Nashoba Regional High School

12 Green Road

Bolton, MA 01740

11:30 am – 2:00 pm

 

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Bloomfield Hills, Michigan

Metro Parent Camp Expo 2015

Detroit Country Day Lower School

3003 W. Maple Road

Bloomfield Hills, MI 48301

11:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Saturday, March 7, 2015

Annapolis, Maryland

Chesapeake Family Magazine

Annapolis Area Christina Middle School Gymnasium

716 Bestgate Road

Annapolis, MD 21401

10:00 am – 2:00 pm

 

Las Vegas, Nevada

The Meadows School

Meadows School Athletic Complex

8601 Scholar Lane

Las Vegas, NV 89128

11:00 am – 3:00 pm

 

Sunday, March 8,2015

NYC Manhattan Media

Park Slope Berkeley Carroll School

181 Lincoln Place

Brooklyn, NY 11217

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Mexico City

Open House at the Cohen’s

Fuente de la Joya

12 Lomas de Las Palmas

Mexico City

5:00 pm – 8:00 pm

RSVP: 55 291 1220 or 1 555 14 30 722

 

Saturday, March 28, 2015

NYC Manhattan Media

St. Jean Baptiste School

173 East 75th St.

New York, NY 10021

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

Sunday, March 29, 2015

NYC Manhattan Media

Congregation Rodeph Shalom

7 West 83rd Street

Between Columbus and Central Park West

New York, NY 10024

12 noon – 3:00 pm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Updates From Camp: The Expanded Scott Theater.

May 12th, 2014

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Have a look at the new Scott theater, it has a new, larger stage, an elevated orchestra pit, greatly expanded seating, and more. We’re very excited to use the new space this summer!

Updates from Camp, Solar array in progress

May 11th, 2014

French Woods is installing a large solar array (100 KW) that will generate a large portion of the electricity we use… here are a few pictures of the installation in progress:

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Casting Call

April 15th, 2014

My name is Richard Hicks.  I’m the Casting Director of the movies ‘Gravity’, ‘Hairspray’, ‘Zero Dark Thirty’ and others.  We are currently casting an independent feature film called WEIGHTLESS, starring Nick Nolte (’48 Hours’) and Jason Clarke (‘Zero Dark Thirty’), and we’re searching for a young boy to play the leading role of ‘Will’, age 8-12, who weighs approximately 150 lbs. or more.

This search is quite special, because we have the opportunity to find a “diamond in the rough” to play the leading role. He doesn’t need to be a professional actor at all. And because of his size he’s the kind of kid you don’t see a lot of in movies, and we want to change that. Our lead, ‘Will’, is just a sweet, quiet, shy kid. But, he’s also coping with childhood obesity, bullying and divorce — issues that affect so many kids today.

Attached is a flyer with some more information on the movie and link to our website, www.weightlessaudition.com.  On the website is a link where they can audition.  They can also ‘like’ our Facebook page and get updates there (www.facebook.com/WeightlessCasting).

We would so appreciate it if you could share the flyer with anyone you think might be right or might possibly know someone who would be right. Kids, adults, teachers, counselors, etc., etc.

Any kid who might be in the ballpark, you can certainly encourage them to ‘audition’ by filming a short interview (doing it on a smartphone is fine – it doesn’t need to be fancy) and uploading it to our audition site. There are helpful instructions and tech support available through the website.

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French woods mentioned in a story on BroadwayDirect.com

December 18th, 2013

http://broadwaydirect.com/feature/choosing-the-right-theater-camp-for-your-child

Check it out.

International Staff Hiring starts soon!

December 12th, 2013

French Woods will be hiring at staff camp fairs in the UK, Australia, New Zealand, and Mexico the dates and fairs we’ll be attending are listed below:

CCUSA Leeds Camp Fair
Ron Schaefer will attend
Saturday 18th January
The Queen’s Hotel
Address: City Square, Leeds, LS1 1PJ

Camp Leaders London Fair  - NEW LOCATION!
Beth Schaefer will attend
Saturday 18th January
10AM to 4PM

The Grand Connaught Rooms, 
61-65 Great Queen Street, London WC2B 5DA

CCUSA London Fair
Ron Schaefer will attend
Sunday 19th January
Hotel: NH Harrington Hall
Address: 5-25 Harrington Gardens, South Kensington
London, SW7 4JW

Camp Leaders Manchester Fair
Beth Schaefer will attend
Sunday 19th January
10AM to 4PM
Manchester Central Conference Center
Windmill Street
Manchester M2 3GX

Camp America Edinburgh Fair
Beth Schaefer will attend
Tuesday 21st January
12PM to 4PM
Our Dynamic Earth
Holyrood Rd
Edinburgh Eh8 8AS

Camp America Manchester Fair
Beth Schaefer will attend
Thursday 23rd January
12PM to 5PM
Manchester Town Hall
Albert Square
Manchester M60 2LA

CCUSA Mexico Fair
Darryn Lawson will attend
Friday 24th January
12PM to 6PM
Centro De Convenciones Puebla
Boulevard Heroes Del 5 de Mayo No 402
Paseo de San Francisco, Colonia Centro Historico
CP 72000 Puebla

CCUSA Mexico Fair
Darryn Lawson will attend
Saturday 25th January
1PM to 5PM
Centro De Convenciones Puebla
Boulevard Heroes Del 5 de Mayo No 402
Paseo de San Francisco, Colonia Centro Historico
CP 72000 Puebla

Camp America London Fair
Beth Schaefer will attend
Saturday 25th January
12PM to 5PM
The Queen Elizabeth II Conference Center
Broad Sanctuary, Westminster
London SWIP 3EE

CCUSA Brisbane Fair
Larry Seigal will attend
Wednesday 29th January
5PM to 8PM
190 Elizabeth Street,
Brisbane, QLD, 4000

CCUSA Melbourne Fair
Larry Seigal will attend
Saturday 1st February
11AM to 3PM
The Grand Hyatt on Collins
123 Collins Street,
Melbourne, VIC, 3000

CCUSA Sydney Fair
Larry Seigal will attend
Sunday 2nd February
1PM to 5pm
The Hilton Hotel
488 George Street,
Sydney, NSW, 2000

CCUSA Auckland Fair
Larry Seigal will attend
Tuesday 4th Feb
5PM to 8PM
Heritage Hotel Auckland
35 Hobson Street, Auckland

2013 – 2014 Camp Fairs

December 4th, 2013

 

Wednesday, April 4 – Saturday, April 12, 2014

Memphis, Tennessee
There will be a French Woods Representative in the area.
(800) 634-1703  Call for details.

Saturday, April 5, 2014

Manhattan Media – Upper East Side
St. Jean Baptiste School
173 East 75th Street
New York, NY
12 noon – 3 pm

Sunday, April 6, 2014

Manhattan Media – Upper West Side
Rodeph Shalom
7 West 83rd Street
New York, NY
12 noon – 3 pm
 
Fort Lauderdale, Florida Open House
At the home of the Camp Owner
Beth Schaefer/ Michael Knauf
5419 NE 31st Avenue
Fort Lauderdale, FL
12 noon – 4 pm
RSVP (800) 634-1703
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
 

 

 

 
 
 

 

 

 

 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 

 

HOMESICKNESS – EXPERT ADVISE FOR PARENTS

April 6th, 2013

Many first year campers have never been away from home for an extended period of time. It is natural, therefore, that their reluctance about leaving friends and family could be carried to camp. It is with this in mind that I offer these suggestions. Homesickness is a natural result of the changes in a child’s environment. Parents can take courage from the fact that many campers do not experience this, and those that do recover swiftly. All of the camp staff, from the director down, are prepared to help the youngster with the adjustment, expedited with the cooperation of the parent. These suggestions are designed to help you prepare your child for the enriching experience that French Woods provides.

AT HOME
If your youngster exhibits concern about going to camp, encourage him/her to talk to you about it. The child is worried about the unknown and is looking for understanding. It is helpful to tell your child that such concerns are normal and that many other campers feel the same way. If there are specific worries about bunkmates, clothes, or anything else, let your child call the camp office and speak with Isaac. Often specific answers are not necessary after the child has had the opportunity to express himself/herself to a receptive ear.

Begin by involving your child in the process of choosing a camp. The more that the child owns the decision, the more comfortable the child will feel being at camp. Don’t be ambivalent about the length of your child’s stay at camp. There should be no trial periods. He/she is there for a full session or a full summer and should understand this. A “try-out” approach is a sure loser, certain to create a serious homesickness problem at camp. On the other hand, don’t make your child feel he/she must go to camp, no matter how enthusiastic you may feel about the benefits of the experience. Send a note or care package (REMEMBER-NO FOOD) ahead of time to arrive the first day of camp. Acknowledge, in a positive way, that you will miss your child. For example, you can say “I am going to miss you, but I know that you will have a good time at camp.”

Reassure your child that everything at home will be the same as when he left; that pets will be cared for, possessions protected, etc. If, for some reason, this is not possible let Isaac know so that he and his staff can effectively be supportive. Don’t bribe. Linking a successful stay at camp to a material object sends the wrong message. The reward should be your child’s new found confidence and independence. Please notify Isaac of any upsetting event which may have occurred prior to camp, or is to occur during the summer. This might include illness or death in the family, poor school grades, divorce, or moving to a new house or city. The camp staff is there to help. When seeing your child off at the bus, make your parting brief and pleasant. Long goodbyes and floods of tears are upsetting. The same applies for visiting days, too. Remember, our staff will always be there to help make you and your child feel comfortable.

Every camp asks for parents to fill out medical and profile information. Ensure that you complete the medical and activity profiles as completely as possible. While the camp is designed to provide instruction and recreation in many areas, certain youngsters may ave a more rewarding time if encouraged in specific activities. The camp staff’s knowledge of your child’s interests (and Phobias!) can be helpful in arranging the most appropriate program from the wide variety of activities offered.

AT CAMP
Your cooperation is needed to ensure a successful summer for your child. Most children are resilient and adapt successfully to new situations. Parents, however, sometimes find it difficult to adjust to the youngsters being away from home. To prevent any negative effects on your children: Write or email frequently with good news and a cheerful tone – chatty and pleasant. Try not to telephone except in an emergency. Contact Isaac if you have a special concern. Be assured we will contact you if your child is experiencing difficulties. Remember children have access to payphones should they need to call you after the first week of each session.

When a “rescue call” comes from the child, offer calm reassurance and put the time frame into perspective. Avoid the temptation to take the child home early. Should you receive an upsetting call or e-mail, telephone Isaac immediately. Isaac and his staff will help. MAKE NO PROMISES. This is a sure route to failure. Talk candidly with the Isaac or your child’s head counselor to obtain his/her perspective on your child’s adjustment. Don’t feel guilty about encouraging your child to stay at camp. For many children, camp is a first step toward independence and plays an important role in their growth and development.

CONCLUSION
Camp is an experience that cannot be duplicated in any other environment, offering the opportunity for your child to achieve the poise and confidence that comes with the mastery of skills and the sociability developed as a vital participant in a structured and democratic society of his/her peers. French Woods works diligently to assemble the best staff possible. Countless hours throughout the year go into preparation and evaluation of the camp program. With your help, we are well prepared to serve the needs of your child.

How to Help Your Child Have a Great Time at Camp

April 6th, 2013

Dear First Time Parent,

We send this letter out of concern for the welfare of your child. Each year, out of misguided love, one or two parents take actions that in the end are most damaging to their child. In order to help these parents avoid putting their children in harms way we have enclosed the following article. It was taken from a review of essays on child development:

How to Help Your Child Have a Great Time at Camp by Bruce Muchnick, EdD

Summer at camp is more than just a vacation. At camp, kids learn to appreciate the outdoors, experience the companionship of other children and young adults working as counselors, learn skills that enhance self-reliance, cooperation with others and a sense of life larger than one’s self. Hopefully, the acquisition and refinement of such skills will contribute in positive and significant ways to the child’s adjustment and will carry over into his/her adult years.

Camp makes it easy for kids to have fun, relax and experience the spontaneous joys of childhood. A summer at camp is often perceived by; children, parents, community leaders, clergy and social service agencies as a respite from the strains of everyday family life and the pressures and tensions of school.

To help your child have a successful time at camp this summer…

Think of camp as a learning experience. Sending your children to camp offers a wonderful opportunity for both you and your children to practice “letting go” — an experience that can contribute to the development of healthy independence.

Don’t buy a whole new wardrobe. Camp is more rugged than life at home. A child doesn’t need new clothes… and having well-worn clothes and familiar possessions will help ease the transition. This is especially important for first-time campers.

Listen to and talk about concerns. As the first day of camp nears, some children understandably experience uneasiness about going off to camp. Rather than acting on what you believe his feelings to be, ask good questions such as: “We’ve been busy packing your gear. What are your thoughts about your program?” Communicate your confidence in his ability to handle being away from home and remind him about “small victories,” successes he has experienced in other situations.

Have realistic expectations. Camp, like the rest of life, has high points and low ones. Not every moment will be filled with wonder and excitement. At times, your child will feel great while at other times he may feel unhappy or bored.

Solution: Try to maintain within yourself — and encourage within your child — a reasonable and realistic view of camp by mentioning “ups and downs.” Opportunities for problem solving, negotiating, developing greater self-awareness and increased sensitivity to the needs of others can help your child cope with successes and failures in everyday life. Resist sending your child off to camp feeling pressured to succeed. Just relax and have fun.

When you child is at camp…

Observe camp policy about phone calls. Many camps, for instance, discourage phone calls during the first 10 days. It often takes kids a week and a half or so to adjust to being away from home. A call from home might disrupt the settling-in process. Furthermore, it is difficult to figure out how a child is adjusting to camp during a long-distance phone conversation.

Communicate in writing. Summer camp offers kids and parents the chance to develop a rarely practiced skill — letter writing. Write as often as you want. Keep in mind that this is your child’s connection to home and family.  Email is wonderful and quick. Your letters should be upbeat. It’s fine to write that you miss your child, but don’t include things like “The house is so quiet without you” or “your dog misses you.”

Better: Ask specific questions in your letters about your child’s activities… bunk life… friends, etc. This will help him organize his letters home.

Packages are appreciated every now and then. But don’t send food — it’s disruptive if some kids in the cabin receive food packages and others receive nothing. Receiving food packages is contrary to camp policy. If your child asks you to sneak food packages, don’t. Even if you think the rule is silly, breaking a camp rule might interfere with your child’s sense of right and wrong.

Better: Send postcards, cartoons, newspaper and magazine articles, comics, game books, puzzles and other items that can be shared with friends.

Don’t make major changes at home. This is not the time to reconfigure your marital relationship, move to a new neighborhood, sanitize or gut and redecorate your child’s room or get rid of his fossilized frog collection. Help your child cope at camp. Most kids need a few days to adjust to life at camp and being away from home. During this time, kids miss their parents, pets, friends and familiar surroundings. Most kids cope with these concerns and — with the help of camp staff — build support systems. If your child’s letters contain urgent pleas for you to bring him home, resist the temptation to rush to camp. Avoid making deals, such as “Give camp one more week, if you’re still unhappy, we’ll bring you home.” This is sure disaster.

Better: Support your child’s efforts to work out problems with the help of the director and the camp’s staff.

Communicate your love and confidence in your child’s ability to work through problems. Remind him, if necessary, that he has made a commitment for the summer. Overcoming a longing for home, dealing with upsets in the cabin and learning to care for oneself are important challenges to be faced at camp.

Important: Talk candidly with the camp director. Allow the director and staff an opportunity to apply their expertise in helping kids adapt to the routines of camp life. Listen to the advice of the camp director, remember he’s been doing this for many years and has been very successful. Most adjustment difficulties can be worked through.  Later, your child will thank you for the encouragement to stay.

Keep in mind that some kids feel guilty when an experience like camp does not work out for them. They may feel they have let their parents down, or that they are not up to leaving home.  Failure will remain with a child for years.

Bottom Line/Personal interviewed Bruce Muchnick, EdD, a licensed psychologist in private practice, Glenside, Pennsylvania 19038. Dr. Muchnick advises camp owners, directors, camping professionals and parents throughout the year and works intensively with camp communities during the summer. He is the founder and director of Summer Camp Resources, a group of professionals who provide organizational and mental-health services to camp communities.

It is my hope that you found this letter informative and it has created some discussion. Please do not hesitate to call at any time. Remember it is our goal to provide your child with a positive experience that they will never forget.

Isaac Baumfeld
Camp Director

 

 


Articles about French Woods Alumni

December 4th, 2012

Check out this article about French Woods alum George Adamo.

And while you’re at it, check out this one about alum Jared Scharff

Both of them mention French Woods.